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Dating

For singles and relationship seekers.

Communities for people looking to make connections and navigate modern dating. Discord hosts many of the biggest servers ranging from casual social spaces to more structured communities, with millions of members across the top servers for people seeking conversation and connection.

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Mingle2

Mingle2 Forum is a 100% free online dating site for singles. Join in on the dating conversation with our free dating forum. This community also offers an app for chatting with over 39 million users.

39,000,000 members
r/Tinder

A community for discussing the online dating app Tinder. Sharing conversations, reviewing profiles and more.

reddit · 5,900,000 members
r/dating_advice

This sub is for advice about specific dating situations not general debates.

reddit · 4,400,000 members
r/dating

Vent, discuss, learn! A subreddit to discuss and explore the dating process and learn from the experiences of others.

reddit · 2,700,000 members
r/datingoverthirty

A subreddit for folks nearing or over 30 who are looking for dating advice.

reddit · 1,100,000 members
Facebook Singles Dating

Facebook Singles Dating, Join Facebook Singles Dating App to connect with singles who are searching for soulmates and are ready to mingle.

facebook · 639,958 members
SALT Christian Dating App Social

SALT is an online community bourne out of our dating app. It's a community of single Christians looking to meet other singles for romance as well as fellowship through our Social network, Table audio events, YouTube third wheel dates, in-person mixers, and SALT _ Life blog.

500,000 members
American & Canadian Girl's Single Dating Sites

Experience United States of American, Canada single dating sites! Welcome to my group!

facebook · 387,317 members
Relationships & Dating 18+

My community is dating discord server which is biggest discord server even without discovery we get 700-800 joins daily not NSFW but strictly 18+ chilll community

discord · 253,802 members
Lovedate

Make Some Good Friends And Memories With Us .This Server Is Based For Chill , Social , Games Related Purposes.

discord · 176,949 members
international dating & friendship

A Facebook group dedicated to international dating and making friends.

facebook · 112,472 members
r/OnlineDating

Everything about online dating - your amusing stores, advice, and encouragement when you need it.

reddit · 105,000 members
The Cage

The Cage BDSM Community is where people who love BDSM, kink, and fetish connect. Free to join, it brings together real people who value authenticity, shared experiences, and meaningful relationships. With blogs, forums, personal ads, and live chat, it’s a kink-positive place for real conversation and real connection. Join us today.

90,000 members
Spiritual People Dating & Friends

Welcome To Spiritual People Dating And Friendship. As we share in our experiences and a desire to communicate with like minded people, this group is about getting to know people who are spiritual awaken at different levels in conscious awareness. It's about meaningful friendship and relationship.

facebook · 60,932 members
Dater

Welcome to Dater! Dater is the best social server for Dating, Gaming, Chilling, Anime and more. It's the top 1 growing community! Check out perks and rewards.

discord · 46,923 members
Secret Dare

Secret Dare is a Truth or Dare online dating community. With a sexy online Truth or Dare game where you can play with the community using Pictures or Video Chat. You can express your desires and fantasies and meet people to realize them.

20,000 members
Onekiss

We are a public and inclusive community server that aims to bring everyone together to share, connect, and have fun! We have something for everyone and you’ll never get bored. Our members are friendly and welcoming, and we are always looking for new people to join the family. Come and make friends, join some interesting conversations, and just have a good time with others.

discord · 8,140 members
★★☆☆☆2 · 1 review
BDSM Obedience Academy

BDSM Obedience Academy is a structured Discord community built around D/s dynamics, psychological dominance, and obedience training. We welcome Dominants, submissives, and switches of all genders who are serious about discipline, behavior modification, and power exchange. Members progress through task-based rituals, public accountability, and rank systems designed to foster trust, devotion, and long-term sadomasochistic relationships. Our Academy blends protocol, kink education, and deep emotional control.

discord · 6,000 members
★☆☆☆☆1 · 1 review
DateRoom

DateRoom | Best Server For Dating! 1st FASTEST GROWING SERVER!

discord · 4,449 members
★★★★★5 · 2 reviews
Amoura Hub

Amoura Hub is a clean and friendly social community built for people looking to make real connections in a relaxed environment. It focuses on simple, respectful conversations where members can meet new people, chat freely, and build friendships at their own pace. The server is strictly 18+ and maintains a safe, SFW space with no drama or toxic behavior. Members can enjoy active chats, voice channels, interactive bots, and matchmaking features designed to help people connect naturally.

discord · 1,187 members
Socializer School

This is THE place to learn how to approach & attract women authentically so you can get a girlfriend in 60-90 days.

skool · 191 members
LoveShack.org

is an interpersonal relationship advice and assistance community that confronts personal conflicts, promotes participation in self-discovery and responsibility, and is a place to share dating tips, love advice, and relationship resources.

eNotAlone.com

eNotAlone.com is a place for relationship advice, online dating, and long distance relationships.

Secret Society Premium

DateIQ 2.0 Membership - a premium dating advice community on Discord with coaching and structured programs.

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